Can A Relationship Work A Second Time After A Break Up?

I was with my ex boyfriend for almost 4 years and we had a very emotional and complicated break up. Is it possible to make a relationship work after a break up? Does this happen often? I'm very confused about this right now, I've never been the type of person to break up and then get back together.

9 Responses to “Can A Relationship Work A Second Time After A Break Up?”

  1. astutewo says:

    yes, as long as its not going back to the same kind of behaviors that broke you up in the first place.

  2. ifeellik says:

    I was with my ex for 3 years, and our breakup was also very emotional and complicated. (I broke up with him) We were separated for 6 months, and even though I dated other people, he was my first love, and I couldnt get over him, even though I ended things. We got back together, and it barely lasted 5 months. He didn’t become a different person like I had hoped. I still love him to this day, but it just didnt work out for us. This isnt to say that it wont work out for you, but just know that people dont change.

  3. onthelin says:

    it’s a lot harder no doubt. but anything is possible. you have to go with the flow i think. but i’ve never been the type to try and get back together either really after breaking up. usually better to move on. BUT, like i said, anything is possible i guess. good luck. will take a lot of work on both sides if so though

  4. Jaco says:

    yeah it does happen havnt you heard of people having it on and off with ther boyfriend? just with you i feel that it isnt gonna be on off you had almost 4 years and it was a messy break up just give it time to settle it is deffenetly possible expecialy for you two
    good luck

  5. wdickgit says:

    Yes i’ve been in a relationship like that before and sometimes the relationship is even better the second time around.

  6. Isabella says:

    YES IT CAN BECAUSE WELL………………………………… U LOVE THE GUY AND HE LOVES YOU AND IF U BROKE UP FOR A STUPID REASON THEN YES.

  7. GangerS says:

    It can work, if both people put in the equal amount of themselves into the relationship/

  8. Jersey says:

    Sure why not. Don’t think so hard about it just go with the flow.

  9. Anonymous says:

    yes it is, just ask again.

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