How Can I Break Up With My Bf Gently?
I love my bf to death, but I’m not IN love with him anymore. We’ve been dating for 2 years, and he’s really got it bad for me. I’m bisexual, and I think I may have found someone new, a girl. I would NEVER cheat on him, but i really like this new girl. How can I break up with him and us still stay friends? Or should I just keep dating him and forget about her?
If you are not in love with your BF and don’t believe you ever would be, then for his benefit you should tell him so. Telling him just what you said above. Be loving and kind. Tell him how special he is to you and that you would never want to lose him as a friend, but you need to move on. Apologize, but stay firm that you have to take care of yourself. That is not selfish. If you stayed with him, your relationship would not last.
You’ve got to tell him, if you don’t and carry on with him then you’ll end up resenting him and he’ll be even more hurt in the end.
Just sit him down and tell him how you feel, that you love him and care for him but you’re not in love with him. Tell him you want to stay friends if he does. He’ll probably want to know why you don’t want to be with him, but just tell him you feel like your relationship has deteriorated to “just friends” and that you think you might be bisexual. He should be alright with it after a while.
well if you dont feel anything for him any more then dont stay with him it would be a waste of your time.
tell him that you have had a great relationship but you want to explore and try something new specially if it has been 2 years
say its not you you are fantastic but i just want to try something new since we have been with each other for so long
either way hes gonna be upset
because he loves you but you just have to be honest
good luck
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If you don’t have those feelings for him anymore, and you do for this girl, it’s best to dump him for her. Just be nice about it, but don’t give in to anything he says about being so upset about. Breaking up with him is best for both of you, and it wouldn’t work out anyways considering you no longer have feelings for him. Good luck.
You should break up with him only because he deserves to be with someone who feels the same way he does for them. As far as staying friends with him, that wouldn’t be healthy for either of you. If your going to leave him leave him, but don’t plan on being friends with him.
uve been dating him and you know him well just stay with him and forget about her.
try and do both go for her while still dating but find out stuff about her and if you think shes the one then break up with him gently
u should keep dating him…because what if ur parents found out u where into girls????? they would freak out
they might also kick u out
this is ur decision .. .compare whome do u like better..the guy or girl??
good luck
Tell him you think its time to see other people.
” I love my bf to death, but I’m not IN love with him anymore.”
WOW!
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tell him the truth. It is kinder than him feeling hurt like he did something wrong